My Story
From Fear to Power: Why I Do This Work
I didn’t set out to become a transformational coach. I became one because I had to — for myself.
After a handful of years of successful financial advising, backed by company-paid support and elite recognition, I hit a wall. Not externally — internally. I began to dread picking up the phone. Fear of rejection. Fear of failure. Overwhelming stress. It gripped me quietly but powerfully. My performance tanked. I felt embarrassed, stuck, and confused.
And yet, this was the turning point.
What started as a search to fix my own mental and emotional breakdown became a lifelong devotion to transformational work, beginning with immersive training in ontology, linguistics, and deep communication. I applied it everywhere: first to myself, then to clients, teammates, coworkers, and eventually full leadership programs.
And everything changed.
I went from someone who couldn’t make five calls a day… to someone making 200–300 cold calls daily, closing major deals, and becoming a top producer at a gold & silver investment firm.
I went from being afraid to speak to being offered three jobs from three first interviews, because of how I now listen and relate to others.
I went from a hockey player known as The Darkness… to a man known for presence, clarity, power, and peace of mind.
And through it all, I never stopped serving others.
I helped a woman reclaim her self-worth after a double mastectomy — just by being a stranger who fully saw her.
I helped a grieving father on the verge of collapse reconnect with his family after the tragic death of his son.
I coached a man through decades of bottled-up rage, leading him to reinitiate contact with estranged sisters after 30 years of not speaking.
I guided a woman to rebuild her relationship with her ex-husband and estranged son — simply by shifting her approach to conversation and truth.
I’ve helped survivors of sexual trauma unfreeze and unlock their happiness again.
And in many cases, people released things they’d been involuntarily carrying for 30 years, in about 30 minutes of speaking with me.